Dear shy
Thanks for sending through this question. Many people are concerned about their puchases remaining confidential.
Discretion is of the utmost impotance to us and we do everythign we can to ensure your puchase is totally confidential.
Any purchases you make will be sent out either in a NZ courier bag or wrapped in plain brown wrapping paper with courier stickers. There is absoloutely no branding or any way to determine the package is from D.VICE. The senders address will be LLM Ltd which is our company name. If you would like 'Privte and Confidential' written on the package just specify when making your purchase.
Happy shopping!

Dear Christian

We actually have some of these in stock. They are given away when you purchase Durex Performa condoms.
The easiest way for you to find out more would be to actually call us on our free phone number 0800 SEX TOYS (0800 739 8697).

Dear

Such a big question, with so little information to go on! I would first suggest you read through some of the headings in this forum, like the g-spot and orgasms categories because there is a lot of useful information there.

I am going to assume you are male, and find that maybe you orgasm and ejaculate faster than your female partner? This is very common, and often true for those in the younger generation or the less experienced. Be prepared to take the time to pleasure your partner in various ways prior to climax. Often women take longer to 'warm up' than their male counterparts, so it is important to pay her lots of attention. Not being emotionally and physically prepared for sex can mean a girl may not 'get off' at all....or it could take a long time.

Are you using a good water based lubricant? Using lubrication will enhance any sexual experience, making all sex more comfortable and pleasurable. It is great for masturbation as well as during penetrative sex. One of our most popular lubricant's is Probe, which comes in Silky Light or Thick Rich for more substantial lubrication. Oral sex can also be a good pre-cursor to penetrative sex. We have a great book called The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus, which is filled with various ways on how to improve those oral techniques. Many women 'get off' on oral sex, so maybe having good techniques will improve your chances of getting your girl off faster.

Does your girl enjoy g-spot stimulation? We have a wide range of g-spot toys purpose built for wonderful g-spot sensations. Rock Chick and G Twist are two of our most popular choices, you only have to read the feedback to see that! If you think your girl would like a g-spot toy with a more substantial head to it, new to our range are G Swirl and G Ripple. If something a wee bit smaller that can travel better is more what you are looking for, the Mini Meany is another fabulous favourite.

Then we have Purr Gel. This is a clitoral arousal gel that promotes responsiveness in the clitoris. It causes the blood vessels in the clitoris to dilate, therefore helping to encourage full arousal. Using this gel, with or without toys, is a great addition to any girl's sex kit.

Dear jana

I'm not too sure exactly what you are asking here, but am going to take a wild guess! Are you looking to find some positions that will ensure stimulation of the clitoris during sexual intercourse with a penis?

It is quite a common thing that the clitoris does not get all the attention it requires during penetrative sex, this can cause many people to become frustrated and upset. For most women , the clitoris requires some direct stimulation in order to progress to orgasm.

One of our most popular books is The Kama Sutra by Anne Hooper. This mini manual is filled not only with different positions, but also how to prepare for love making; making time for yourselves; safe sex; and how to prolong the mood. It is a great resource that gives lots of fun ideas, based mainly on tantric sex practices.

For more enjoyable, prolonged sexual intercourse, ensure you are using a good water based lubricant like Probe or Yes. Yes is a new product to our fabulous range and it's special because it is a truly certified organic product and has a beautful silky texture to it.

If you would like to consider introducing toys to your relationship, it is a good idea to talk to your partner first. Maybe you could both take a look at our website together. Vibrating cock ring toys are very popular with couples to be used during intercourse. A few of the favourites are the Naughty Bunny, and the New Zealand designed and manufactured Kiwi and Tuatara. All cock rings have the same basic funtion - they help to maintain an erection by stopping the blood from flowing back out of the shaft of the penis. The vibrations on the vibrating types provide an extra wee buzz into the fray. The best position when using this type of toy is with the female on top as she can direct how much pressure to apply and exactly where to apply it.

Hopefully, this is the type of information you were seeking.

Dear exdresser

If you look up "Whisperings" on the internet, you will find some great resources to read, links to other sites including some cross dressing resources. You would be able to make some contact with like minded people, some of which, may be in your area.
Many of these groups meet for different kinds of social events.
Check out our range of sexy Lingerie and Clothing, you may find something really gorgeous to wear on your big coming out day.
Have a fabulous time!

Dear brit

In rare cases, some people do have an allergic reaction to the protein in a mans sperm. As you say there is no discomfort if he has not ejaculated, so to test this theory a little further, next time use a condom and ensure he ejaculates. If you find there is no discomfort while using a condom, it is highly likely that you do suffer an allergic reaction. Other symptoms of an allergic reaction are redness, burning and swelling, usually in the outer genital area.
Your GP should be able to test for an allergy. They will probably want to know if you suffer from any other symptoms too. If you feel less comfortable with your own doctor, your local sexual health centre will be able to help. Your boyfriend may need to get his semen tested too. I suggest using condoms or him pulling out before ejaculating until you get a medical opinion. Good luck!

Dear melbchick

Thanks for your kind words.

Often society has this image of what we should look like. Books, magazines and movies show images of women that are often unrealistic. And many of the women in them may have had surgery or the pictures could have been airbrushed to make everything thing look even and symetrically formed (and hairless!).
These sorts of images can make some of us feel insecure and less superior or beautiful, but it is the differences in us that gives us all a unique beauty. We are all perfectly formed and different.
First, you need to love who you are. Labia come in all sorts of shapes and sizes. And whatever shape or size your labia are is definitely normal. I would suggest you do some research on the vagina. If you google 'all about my vagina', you will come across a great website loaded with information. Take a look around down there more often, get to know your own vagina better.
We do inherit physical characteristics from our parents and this includes the genitals. Women all have differing shape of labia and vagina, and men also have a huge variety of shaped penis and scrotum.
Next time you have a partner down there looking....ask if they like what they see. You will probably find that they love the look of every inch of your body, regardless. This affirmation can really help boost your self image.

Dear curious

What a great investment in your future well being you have made.

Smartballs and Funballs can be used most everyday and kept in all day too. When taken out at the end of the day or when desired, just flush wash under running water or wipe down with wipes or a damp cloth and leave to dry thouroughly before using them again.
With regular use, you will notice that you can 'squeeze' harder, your orgasms may have intensified and you will generally experience good health in the pelvic floor region that holds those all those important bits. They are especially good if you suffer from stress incontinence or just want to avoid this in the future.
They can be popped inside a condom if desired before insertion. This will keep them cleaner when in use.
The first ball needs to be inserted high into the vagina, so the second ball can fit in after it. You can use a good water based lubricant like Probe or Yes to make insertion easier if you wish, or just pop them in when you are aroused!
When your pelvic floor is nicely toned, you can just pop them in every couple of weeks to help maintain that tone. Just like any other muscle, the pelvic floor needs regular attention to maintain it's fitness and strength.
One wee warning thought....don't wear them if you happen to be going through customs security....they are likely to set off the alarms!

Dear sam

What a fantastic surprise to find in the Christmas stocking!

Yes, we recommend with any cockring that it is put on when the man is semi erect, so he can 'grow' into it. You can use a good water based lubricant like Probe or Yes with your Kiwi to ease it on if required. Whilst the silicone ring is firm it is quite stretchy and can be pulled so the hole is bigger to slide on.
The best position for use is with the woman on top, so she has control over her pleasure and can adjust her movements to the required level of stimulation.
The tightness of most cockrings are designed to keep the blood inside the penis, so we also recommend that the guys don't keep them on too much longer than half an hour at a time....we wouldn't want it dropping off at all!
The Kiwi is a one size fits all toy so is average sized. However it will stretch to fit most guys. If your man is really well endowed there is potential it could be too tight for him. The Kiwi can also be used on a vibrator or hand held and the beak is fantastic for clit and nipple stimulation. Enjoy

Dear long john

Low libido is quite common, especially when we are all so busy with our routine lives that may involve children, work, school, meetings, housework, sport etc etc...and quite often in longer term relationships, there can be times when we don't always feel that sexual. It could be dietary or maybe the medication we are taking that's affecting our libido.
It can be a little disheartening for those of us who get turned down when we try to initiate sex without success. After a few knock backs, we will often think it's about us, but often its not at all. If you continue with the communication (listening as well as talking!), give your lady lots of affectionate cuddles, smiles and hugs without any expectation of sex, you may find that things change.
Why not give her a lovely sensual massage with some Love Oil. Massage is a great way to relax and physically communicate with our loved ones without having sex.
Have a read through the libido section of this forum, there are many examples of where people are suffering from a lowered libido. If you can read through it together, all the better. It may help you both to understand what may be going on. Many different things can affect our libido, so it's a matter of elimination really.
You could suggest to your partner that she try Lavigra. It is a dietary supplement that helps boost the libido, and works best when taken daily for 7-10 days.
When you have both gone through eliminating certain things and your partner is ready to make some time for herself and you, be ready to give her a special treat. This would be a good time to give the Purr Gel another try, as it is a clitoral arousal gel, rather than a libido enhancer.
When the opportunity for some sexual fun pops up, using a good water based lubricant like Probe or Yes will enhance the experience.
Good luck!